A common question that I get from guys who are overweight and want to attract or even just have sex with women is;
“Does being fat hurt my chances of getting a woman?”
The answer of course is absolutely it does, especially when you place so much value on not being overweight that you have to ask the question in the first place.
In the grand theme of things being fat eliminates some women from wanting to be with you and unfortunately your negative view in regards to your being overweight hurts your chances with a whole lot of women with whom you might have been able to get otherwise.
When it comes to people that are overweight they generally fall into two categories in terms of their ability to get women.
- Those who really don’t care about it and go after what they want
- Those who do care about it and choose to use it as an excuse with women
In terms of your own level of consciousness when it comes to attracting women, at best you are at the level of apathy which means the only real way you can get a woman is by either guilt tripping her into it or finding a woman that has a whole lot of issues in terms of men and her own self-esteem
Of course, just because you are at such a low level doesn’t mean you have to stay down there and you do have options when it comes to improving yourself such as;
- You can start taking the steps necessary to lose weight
- You can begin doing more of the activities that empower you or begin finding activities that do empower you.
- Do both option 1 and 2
Once, you begin taking your power back into your own hands and stop letting what others may or may not think determine how you feel you will raise your level of consciousness and the higher you raise that level the more attractive you will become to more women.
In the end, no matter how great and wonderful you really are there will always be someone who will tell you that you aren’t great and someone who will tell you that you are and believe it or not both of them could be lying as well as telling the truth.
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